
A long answer is symptomatic of asking the wrong question.
This heuristic presented itself to me towards the end of 2025.
I started applying it everywhere.
It helps me stay on track, and I have yet to find an instance where it doesn't work.
Consider for instance:
- "Why can't I change?"
- "What's the meaning of life?"[^1]
- "What do I want to do?"
- "What was I born to do?"
- "Why can't have what others have?"
- "Who am I?"
- "Why doesn't it work?"
There's no shortage of noise on the subject, whether it's in your mind, your local library or the web.
Ironically enough, most clickbait is based on making you believe there's a secret recipe to those unhelpful questions.
While I don't see my life as exceptional in any way, sharpening my questions definitely turned it around.
Why?
I'm utterly sceptic of rationalizations and over-explanations.
Seeing that it works suffices me.
Nonetheless, if I had to, I'd guess that it nudges you into meaningful action, enabling you to gather insight in the real world rather than untangling the deformed image your mind reflects and mistakes for the real thing.
What good is a question that doesn't lead anywhere?
Notice how beautifully simple the answer to this question is.
Perhaps it's worth asking it a bit more.
This heuristic also stems from my observation of how much time I'm able to spend on questions that have no influence whatsoever on the resolution of the problem I'm working with.
Do you need to understand why you need to eat to do so?
Why is often irrelevant.
Unless you're reluctant to sit behind the wheel in the moving car that is your life[^2].
Then it's a great question to pretend someone else is behind the wheel.
Regardless, turns are coming.
I imagine that staying on the road or going for the ravine is a matter of personal preference.
[^1]: It's obviously 42.
[^2]: You're alone in that car.